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Angela Lunde
Angela Lunde is a dementia education specialist in the education core of Mayo Clinic's Alzheimer's Disease Research Center at the Abigail Van Buren Alzheimer's Disease Research Clinic in Rochester, Minn.
Angela Lunde
The transfer of information about dementias, as well as understanding the need for participation in clinical trials, is an essential component of the education core.
Angela is a member of the Alzheimer's Association board of directors and co-chair of the annual Minnesota Dementia Conference. She is a member of the Dementia Behavior Assessment and Response Team (D-BART), a multidisciplinary outreach service assisting professional and family caregivers in understanding and managing difficult behaviors often present in dementia. She facilitates several support groups, including Memory Club, an early-stage education and support series, and more recently, helped to develop and now deliver Healthy Action to Benefit Independence and Thinking (HABIT), a 10-day cognitive rehab and wellness program for people with mild cognitive impairment.
Angela takes a personal interest in understanding the complex changes that take place within relationships and among families when dementia is present. She is particularly interested in providing innovative and accessible ways for people with dementia and their families to receive information and participate in valuable programs that promote well-being.
"Amid a devastating disease, there are tools, therapies, programs and ways to cope, and it is vital that families are connected to these resources," she says.
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Nov. 3, 2007
Help, support crucial for caregivers
By Angela Lunde
I facilitate a men's caregiving support group. Twice a month 5 to 10 male caregivers gather around a table finding support in one another at a time when it can feel like no one understands. It is here they find companionship when isolation can be a problem. The men listen and learn from one another.
I remember Joe. Joe had been a caregiver for his wife in their own home since her diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease. Joe frequently looked to the men in the group for answers to the difficult situations that impact all caregivers. I imagine Joe was apprehensive at first, as are many men.
He was a quiet and reserved gentleman and probably felt most comfortable handling his affairs privately. But somehow Joe found his way to the group and continued to come for several years.
I clearly recall valuable lessons that Joe taught all of us. He reminded us that to care for a person with dementia meant helping them to maintain their personal identity and sense of dignity. I remember Joe telling the group that when it came time for him to help his wife with her hair, makeup, and clothing, it was important that he do it 'just right' because his wife was always particular about that sort of thing.
And when Joe started looking at day programs for her to attend so he could have a break, he looked for a place that was "pretty" because Joe said his wife always liked the things around her to be pretty. For Joe, caring for his wife meant respecting her for the person she had been and the person she was at any given time.
What I valued most in my time with Joe was observing the transformation that took place within him. Over time, he learned something very important in the lives of caregivers. Joe accepted that asking for help and support was not the same thing as being needy or dependent.
He recognized that it was only by asking for help and making use of available resources that he could provide his wife the best possible care. Joe is a reminder of the humble and caring act of accepting help.
3 comments posted
September 30, 2009 12:19 p.m.
my husband is much older than me almost 83 i'm 51. when we met 17 years ago there was no age difference. i knew what i was getting into but i love him very much. now with his "alzheimer type dementia" i feel very alone. i have no support. i wait on him constantly & do everything. i'm burnt out, lonely.
- laurie
April 24, 2009 9:24 p.m.
Shelly, good for you. Karma is a wonderful thing! I'm not the main care giver for my father but I visit as often as I can physically and mentally travel the 3 hrs. I want to give mom as much support and time off as I can. I have fibromyalgia, have had surgery for herniated disk in my neck and have bulging disk in my back. I also work full time at a stressful job. So I feel your pain literally. What do you do to separate from it all?
- Brooke
October 16, 2008 2:27 a.m.
Dear support group and Joe's story. My mother has dementia. It truly is the most hardess crisis to deal with. I truly beleieve we all have history to our life that should be known. all of the many love ones deserve the utmost dignity and respect still be treated as a human being not just some person that won't remember from minute to minute to hour to hour day to day. I have 2 siblings both in there late fifties that don't even care about mom. They don't call visit or really even know if she's still living. Shame on them. I believe in karma. All they think about is themslves there integrity there position in life as an executive's. I am the youngest and am permanently disabled for the last 8 years and to take care of my mother. I suffer from severe migraine headaches lasting 4 days at a time vomiting and basically live in a black out room. amoungst that I've had 2 major back surgeries and also have a disease of the cervical spine called cervical mylopathy. My whole family knows of my disablites yet never bother to help. relieve me. All I get is calls to tell me when and were there are going vacation. I beleive my mother gave her life for me and I sure would do everything and anything for her. She's as beautiful now as ever. I feel for us all that we do as caregiver's but most people don't whats it's if they haven't experienced it even in the smallest way. I need help now with mom but don't have the finance's it takes today in this world.
- shelly
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