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  • May 8, 2009

    Blog: Hope springs eternal

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

5 comments posted

Spring has arrived — a time of hope when all things seem possible.

For many in the sporting world, it is also a season of promise. In baseball, every team still has a shot at the World Series. For golfers, it is the Masters Golf Tournament. For cyclists, it is the Tour de France.

These athletes embrace the opportunity to succeed, well aware that they also face the prospect of crushing disappointment. Of course, they do not go it alone. They have family, friends, agents, coaches and mentors who are invested in helping them succeed.

Of course, most of us do not perform on a national stage. We are not in the spotlight. We are living our lives and trying to do the best that we can, sometimes under difficult circumstances. But we can still learn from these elite athletes.

Rather than going it alone, we can ask for help. We need people in our corner to sustain us in times of stress — a friend, a spouse, a partner, someone we can turn to for support and encouragement. I for one often feel as if I have blinders on as I stumble through the day. I need another person's perspective to help me see the big picture. It isn't always easy and it takes courage to go to someone and say, "Okay, be straight with me. How am I doing? How can I do better? And how can I use the gifts that I have?"

So, these are just some idle thoughts on the promise of spring. Have I touched on an issue for some of our blog communities? Let me know. As we have stated on many occasions, we learn from each other, we do not learn in isolation.

5 comments posted

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  • January 3, 2010 6:22 p.m.

    Being part of a faith community has been essential to my well being. I have one dear friend, Jean G, who has sustained me through the last seven years and another email encourager, Kaye S, who praises and exhorts me all the way from California from her computer. Blessings to both of these dear women. And my church, the center for Spiritual Living in Maryland Heights, Missouri, has been a great support system for me. Blessings to all, Barbara A. "Cry Depression, Celebrate Recovery" - coming soon

    - Barbara A

  • June 3, 2009 9:30 a.m.

    Become part of a faith community, even if you don't consider yourself religious.You will be able to meet new people as well as help the wider community through volunteer opportunities. Join the local "Y" and take a class; more fun than the solitary machines!

    - JS, Philadelphia

  • May 17, 2009 1:23 p.m.

    put music and or dance into your routine. No matter your age it is universally a stress release and chance to meet othjers in a social environment.

    - clare

  • May 13, 2009 9:56 a.m.

    Your column inspired me to gather some friends for a weekly support group meeting.

    - Roberta S.

  • May 11, 2009 8:58 p.m.

    Much appreciated.

    - sam

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