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  • Oct. 24, 2009

    Stressed out? Stop trying to do it all

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

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Regardless of our gender, zip code or belief system, we all struggle with stress. And for most of us, work-life balance is a big part of that. Today's corporate culture makes increasing demands of us despite limited or even diminishing resources. Many of us could easily work 60 to 70 hours a week and still not get everything done. How do we cope?

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If the stress in your life is more than you can cope with, get help right away.

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
    1-800-273-TALK (8255)
  • Go to the nearest hospital or emergency room
  • Call your physician, health provider or clergy
  • National Alliance on Mental Illness
    www.nami.org
    1-800-950-NAMI (6264)

I was reminded recently of that famous phrase "draw a line in the sand." We each need to determine where to draw that line — where is the limit of what we can do without risking a meltdown. I also pulled out my copy of Robert Eliot's book, "Is It Worth Dying For? How to Make Stress Work for You — Not Against You," which we give many of our heart disease patients. My answer is "No, it is not worth dying for." What's your answer?

So how can we do our best for others while still taking care of ourselves and honoring our limitations? Again, thank you for your support and encouragement.

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  • October 28, 2009 9:15 a.m.

    I think that this message is especially appropriate for parents. It can affect them if both work, their children have several actvities and they have no help. Overloading children with after school activities can have a negative effect. Everyone needs time out just to be and do what you want. This is not selfish; it is mandatory for a healthy life.

    - Barbara

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