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February 21, 2008 10:25 a.m.
Thriving under adversity
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By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

I have had the privilege of caring for thousands of cancer patients over many years. I continue to be humbled and inspired by their tenacity and resilience in the face of adversity. I have often wondered what is unique about the small number of patients who continue to do astonishingly well despite complicated conditions.

A few years ago, there were studies suggesting that a "fighting spirit" or having a certain attitude was a factor in survival. However, rigorous studies have not supported these early claims. Nevertheless, there is something different about these patients. Likewise, there is something unique about the members of our digital community. Each of you participates, sharing your survival skills and enriching all of our lives.

Recent studies have examined individuals who have survived trauma, natural disasters, and being prisoners of war. I am reading that there are several factors from which we can each profit. The individuals who seem to thrive in adversity have many characteristics but especially five.

  • A faith and a power or energy over and above themselves to offer peace and comfort.
  • A sense of connectedness. The recognition that family and community are crucial to survival.
  • A sense of altruism, somehow sharing of themselves whether a sip of water or a piece of bread to make the life of others a little bit better.
  • Some fundamental level of health and physical fitness. We all cannot run marathons, but we are responsible to keep ourselves as healthy as possible.
  • Most of these survivors had an optimistic attitude and sense of humor. The ability to see the absurdity of life and to recognize that yes there are some funny things that happen even when we are faced with dire circumstances.

I would be grateful for any other characteristics that our community could add to this list.

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March 26, 2008 8:01 p.m.
I had a terrible life as a child and it left me with nightmares until I was abt 18 years old. I have had 2 instances I ended up in a hospital for a few days and a few hours. I keep going and my attacks are becoming less and less. To most of you just hang on and take it one day at a time and sometimes one minute at a time. Exercise has helped me a lot. Try that if you can.
- Jane
March 5, 2008 10:20 a.m.
Although doctors told me over and over again that I would not live a long life because of my non-hodgkins lymphoma I could never in my heart believe them. I just listened and then went out of their office and carried on like they did not eve exist. Today I have reach the old age of 74 years and I am still roller-blading, working out in a gym and I can not believe all the stuff I have gone through. Keep your head high, laugh till it hurts and dance, dance, dance. Sunny
- Sunny
February 28, 2008 11:38 a.m.
Everything passes, both what we regard as favorable and unfavorable. Perhaps a habit of recognizing all circumstances and conditions as impermanent may be helpful. I agree with Roberta S. on the importance of recognizing one's limits and taking time off well before reaching those limits. Researchers have noted that the amygdala, one brain structure activated in the fight or flight response, can be stimulated either by real-world perceptions of actual external stimuli, or as a learned response based on memory. Assuming that one accepts this explanation, it offers hope that a person can also un-learn inappropriate sympathetic nervous system--fight or flight--activation. Some would say this is the point of meditation. No matter where you are and what you are doing, mindful breathing can take you to a more calm state of mind.
- Alan
February 27, 2008 3:51 p.m.
I've always gone with the flow until I reached the age of 70 when a panic attack surprised me. It happened to be a build up of one stressful incident after another, and I didn't have a chance to recuperate from one before the next. I didn't realize it at the time. Now I am conscious of my stressors and make sure I recover by taking a mental health day. Hans Selye really started a new field of medicine with his fight-or-flight theory didn't he?
- Roberta S.
February 27, 2008 7:55 a.m.
Dr. Creagan , you are absolutely correct. While I am not up on new words meaning, for example "reframing" I agree that certain people have some kind of gift that carries them through extreme life changes including possibilites of pain and eventual death. Because of the fantastic events that go on in each of our heads daily unless everyone is interviewed to hear their comments it is unlikely that we can ever know the full extent of coping mechanisms. Faith has been out there but there are so many types so how can one differenciate that one is more powerful or effective. It also removes the action to a third party situation. I have always felt for myself that there is something, that I cannot control that gives me character and strength, even when I don't want to accept it anymore. I wish I could explain this more succinctly but I feel there is mystery and that is our human experience. This almost feels like 101 in philosophy. Are we here or just dreaming?
- Susan
February 26, 2008 7:03 p.m.
I have written in a journal for the past several months about Crazy stuff, and When I look over the notebook I look at the things I have written and it doesnt feel like me. I'm not a very shy or depressed person Well I didn't used to be Now I think About thoughts of suicide and what Am I going to do About it. I'm scared to talk to anyone about it.
- Julia
February 26, 2008 7:51 a.m.
Oddly enough this is what we have been discussing over on http://ambiguityadvantage.blogspot.com/. I have written a couple of articles and a book about how different people cope with adversity and ambiguity. One of the conclusions we have come to is that emotional resilience is an important factor thriving under adversity. Largely this appears to be down to mindset and the ability to be able to monitor your own responses (both emotional reactions and cognitive thought processes) and change them when you realise that things are turning negative. We teach police officers and disaster managers for example how to 're-frame' situations so that they can perform well in difficult situations. The optimism that things will get better and a sense of humour appear to be critical in this area. These are all exercises in reframing. David Wilkinson
- David Wilkinson
February 24, 2008 8:44 p.m.
I've recently been displaced from my job as a pharmaceutical representative. I've worked for 17 years with the same company and have an enormous connection to the people and the health care in general. I believe applying the five characteristics of thriving during adversity may help me greatly during this rollercoaster ride of finding new employment. I recognize my situation is very different from many of your patients however your comments will assist me even if the degree of adversity is not as great. Thank you for your blog!
- Bryan King
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