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Crying baby? How to keep your cool

Treating your baby gently

When your crying baby can't be calmed, you may be tempted to try just about anything to get the tears to stop. It's OK to be creative, but remember the importance of treating your baby gently.

Babies have weak neck muscles and often struggle to support their heads. Shaking your baby out of sheer frustration may have devastating consequences — including brain damage that leads to seizures, learning disabilities or mental retardation. Severe shaking may be life-threatening or even fatal.

If you're having trouble managing your emotions or dealing with parenthood, seek help. Your baby's doctor may offer a referral to a counselor or other mental health professional. Remember, taking care of yourself is the best way to take care of your baby.

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  2. NINDS shaken baby syndrome information page. National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke. http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/shakenbaby/shakenbaby.htm. Accessed June 10, 2009.
  3. Welcome to the world of parenting! American Academy of Pediatrics. http://patiented.aap.org/content.aspx?aid=6326. Accessed June 9, 2009.
  4. Controlling anger - before it controls you. American Psychological Association. http://www.apa.org/topics/controlanger.html. Accessed June 10, 2009.

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