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  • Dec. 2, 2008

    Tools to lessen impulsive eating

    By Jennifer Nelson, M.S., R.D. and Katherine Zeratsky, R.D.

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Thanks again for your response to this series on battling obesity. Be sure to check out the first two parts and the comments from dozens of readers like you.

In going through your responses, I've noted that many of you eat as a way to cope.

" ... when I am having a bad day or low day or happy day I want to comfort myself or celebrate (with food)." - Kim
"I am an emotional eater. When I am upset, stressed or feeling blue is when I eat and eat and eat." - Jan
"Eating is a way to nurture and calm myself down from daily stresses ... My life is already so overwhelming that addressing this issue seems to add more stress. I am already experiencing health issues due to my weight and I am concerned that it will only get worse if I don't make some drastic changes. Hard to know where and how to start." - Charlene

Emotional eaters — you especially do not benefit from being told to "eat less — exercise more."

For you, food is the way you cope. It's your closest buddy — it boosts you up, calms you down, keeps you company, and makes you happy. This is a very hard friend to dump. In fact, even if you are a firm believer in a healthy diet and committed to exercise, this bum will sidetrack even your best intentions.

How do you get a grip on this? Get to know your feelings and what triggers you to eat. Chances are you are not aware of important underpinnings of why you use eating to cope with life's ups and downs. It's also important to learn non-food methods for coping with situations that trigger eating. Ultimately developing skills that lower your overall stress level leaves you with more energy and strength to live positively — and not dependent upon your "food buddy." Here are some tips.

  • Keep a journal that tracks everything you eat — and your feelings. Whenever you eat something write it down. Ask yourself why you are eating the food and what you are feeling. This is known as ABC journaling: Antecedents (why you are eating — including what you are feeling), Behavior (what you ate), and Consequences (how you feel after eating). You should begin to notice behavior chairs like:

    Antecedent (argued with husband/feeling upset) =
    Behavior (grabbed 3 cookies and ate them) =
    Consequences (felt better, then depressed because I shouldn't have eaten the cookies!)

    As you continue to journal, you will notice repeated themes — situations or triggers for emotion-connected eating. Just by journaling, you also become more aware of what you are actually doing and will likely "catch yourself" before grabbing unwanted food.

  • Think of non-food ways to break the chain and write them down. It has been shown that just the act of planning non-food interventions increases your chance of using non-food coping strategies than if you have no plan. Next time you're stressed — count to 60. Lonely? — call a friend. Angry? — vacuum the living room. It also helps to ride out the trigger to eat — this is hard. However, the trigger or emotion will fade and so will the urge to eat.
  • Ultimately it helps to de-stress. Stress management techniques can be as simple as deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation. Look for yoga or tai chi classes. Pick up DVDs, and books on stress management. Exercise frequently. It has been shown that those who learn and practice any of these regularly cope with stress in a less destructive manner.

Now you have some tools that you can use to develop a better variety of healthy coping skills — ones that lessen your first impulse for food — and increase your success at weight control.

Try some of these out — let me know your thoughts.

- Jennifer

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