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  • July 24, 2009

    Blog: Dining and dating

    By Jennifer Nelson, M.S., R.D. and Katherine Zeratsky, R.D.

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Do people judge you based on what you eat? You bet! And not only what you eat, but where you eat. Now that's some food for thought. After all, you want to make a good impression, right?

Researchers at Cornell University have published two studies on food and dating. In the first study, researchers asked university students how they choose a restaurant for a first date and subsequent dates. In the second, they asked students to name foods that are suitable and foods that are taboo for dates. Here's what they found:

  • Setting. For a first date, men considered an upscale restaurant more appropriate, while women preferred a casual/family location. Fast food was dead last — both men and women viewed this as the least appropriate venue for a first date.
  • Date foods. Pasta scored high on men and women's lists of top date foods. Meat, ethnic food and seafood were also popular choices. More women than men listed salads and vegetables as date foods, while more men mentioned beverages, such as alcohol. What influenced their selection of good date foods? Women said they prefer foods that aren't messy, while men said they look for foods that suggest romance.
  • Taboo foods. Topping the list for women was garlic, but both men and women consider any food that causes bad breath a dating no-no. Fast food was also a turn-off for both. Interestingly, more men than women said meat and poultry are not good choices on a date.

So what does this tell us? What we eat says something about us. And although men and women differ somewhat in their restaurant and food preferences, they are sensitive to the impression their choices make on their dates. For those of you in the dating scene, this information may be helpful. For those of us not dating, well, it makes for interesting dinner conversation.

Thoughts?

- Jennifer

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References
  1. Amiraian D, Sobal J. Dating and eating: How university students select eating settings. Appetite. 2009;52:226.
  2. Amiraian D, Sobal J. Dating and eating: Beliefs about dating foods among university students. Appetite (2009) In Press, doi:10.1016/j.appet.2009.06.012.

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