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  • Dec. 20, 2008

    Staying quit during the holidays

    By Jennifer A. Kern, M.S., C.T.T.S.

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This is a hectic time for many. I hear a lot of folks expressing concern about being able to stay quit through the holidays. It is a combination of the highs and lows of the season that can set off urges that could lead you back to smoking.

In order to prevent a relapse it is important to first identify your main triggers. A few common ones include:

  • Stress
  • Loneliness
  • Alcohol use
  • Being around other smokers

When you know what can make you vulnerable to going back to smoking, you can plan in advance to manage those situations before they arise.

For most folks, stress tends to run high during the holiday season. A variety of demands are placed upon us, such as the pressure to spend money and a strong emphasis on family connections. The financial strain can easily go from fun to overwhelming, creating a heightened stress level that can generate the urge to smoke. In some cases, certain family dynamics can create vulnerability to relapse — either due to taxing emotional encounters or possibly a sense of loneliness.

It is important to have strategies you can count on to cope with these stressors, such as the following:

  • Talk with your family and friends in advance about how much money you want to spend on gifts in order to curb some of the financial worries.
  • If certain family dynamics leave you feeling emotionally unsettled, find an approach to get the reprieve that you need. Take time away to go for a walk, do some deep breathing or play with the kids.
  • If you are feeling lonely, consider finding ways to get active within the community, such as volunteering at a local church or homeless shelter.

Stress is not the only trigger. In many cases, times of celebration can create just as much vulnerability. This time of year there are many festive gatherings where you may find other smokers, alcohol and tasty treats in which to indulge. If you know you are headed into a situation like this, be prepared in advance.

  • Plan to avoid areas where others are smoking. Instead, get busy doing the dishes or other activities that keep your hands and mind occupied. 
  • Beware of the use of alternate forms of tobacco. In many celebratory settings, cigar smoking is more common. Even if you don't inhale, puffing on a cigar can cause you to relapse back to smoking due to the reactivation of nicotine receptors in the brain.
  • Limit alcohol use and avoid overeating. Carry substitutes for your hands and mouth, such as straws or chewing gum.
  • Consider engaging a support person to provide additional accountability and help keep you on track.

Do you have other tips to share or stressors you can share? Please do, and have a happy holiday season.

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