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  • May 15, 2009

    Blog: Honoring self-promises

    By Jennifer A. Kern, M.S., C.T.T.S.

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Taking on the process of becoming a non-smoker requires making a very deep commitment to one's self. I think one of the greatest lessons we can learn in life is the honoring of self-promises.

We often take more seriously our commitments to others — our families, spouses, employers, children, friends, and even our pets. I know many people find it easier to "keep their word" when they have someone else who's relying on them or holding them accountable.

What about your self? Isn't your self — you, the person you are with all the time, every day of your life — worth making promises to and then following through with them? What happens each time you break your word to yourself ... how do you feel afterward? How does it make you feel when you do follow through on your self-promises and succeed in meeting your goals?

Undergoing the evolution from being a "smoker" to becoming a "non-smoker" requires making that deep commitment to your self. It is important to support your self through this time of transition, with patience, empathy and dedication.

Imagine encouraging your self through this change process, just as you would help any loved-one through a challenging time. Passionately pledge to your self that smoking is no longer an option in your life and that your primary focus is on your health and prosperity. Find ways to hold your self accountable as you make the choices that will bring you to your goal. This will strengthen your resolve to become and remain smoke-free.

What are the areas in your life where you're able to honor self-promises? Where do you succeed with relative ease? How can you apply some of those tactics to stopping tobacco use? I look forward to reading your comments and hearing your thoughts.

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