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  • July 30, 2009

    Blog: Reach out to help and be helped

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

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"The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty."

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If the stress in your life is more than you can cope with, get help right away.

  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
    1-800-273-TALK (8255)
  • Go to the nearest hospital or emergency room
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  • National Alliance on Mental Illness
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    1-800-950-NAMI (6264)

As this quote from Mother Teresa so eloquently says, being alone is a dreadful burden. And as readers of this blog often note, we need the support of others to deal with the realities of life. As a practicing clinician and a hospice physician, this helps me understand the power of organizations such as Alcoholics Anonymous and other support groups that help patients and families cope with profound challenges.

Although we play different roles and have different titles and credentials, we all have the same fundamental needs. If I am struggling with an issue or a problem I know that others must also be dealing with it. I try to reach out to them and ask how we can help one another tackle the challenge.

I often speak on issues of stress and burnout. During these lectures, I learn so much from the audience, who share their experiences dealing with the big and the little issues. I have now come to believe that there is no such thing as a "little issue." If we do not have the necessary skills, even the smallest inconvenience can tip us over the edge.

This is why I underscore the importance of staying connected to others and taking care of ourselves. We are assaulted every day with bad news and ominous developments over which we have no control. However, we can control our attitude and our faith in each other and the future.

We are all pilgrims on the same road. How can we help each other?

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