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  • Jan. 28, 2009

    Be proactive in caring for yourself and loved ones

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

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Some of you have shared stories of dealing with the elderly, dealing with individuals with developmental disorders, and we wonder what are the limits to human perseverance?

There is no easy answer, but to access the appropriate social service agencies and professional organizations may provide some guidance. The healthcare delivery system doesn't work well, and we need to be proactive in caring for ourselves and our loved ones.

Equally importantly, at the top of our to-do list needs to be some concept of self-care. We have belabored this point in the past, but it bears repeating: We have gifts and skills to share, but if our health deteriorates, those gifts cannot be used to make our world and our families a little bit better.

The gift to laugh at ourselves, the gift to get away for a brief period of time, and the gift to take care of ourselves physically cannot be negotiated. These are things we must do for ourselves or there will be nothing left.

For all of you dealing with these challenging situations, I would welcome insights and perspectives on how you navigate through the healthcare "system" to do the right thing for loved ones who depend on you?

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